{"id":703,"date":"2021-07-01T11:07:28","date_gmt":"2021-07-01T11:07:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.binhthuan.city\/?p=703"},"modified":"2021-07-01T11:07:28","modified_gmt":"2021-07-01T11:07:28","slug":"cach-giup-ban-lay-lai-niem-tin-trong-hon-nhan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.binhthuan.city\/?p=703","title":{"rendered":"C\u00e1ch gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i ni\u1ec1m tin trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n"},"content":{"rendered":"

C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c m\u1ea5t \u0111i ni\u1ec1m tin \u1edf \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u01b0\u1eddng di\u1ec5n ra trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh khi\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n. L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c b\u00ean v\u1ef1c d\u1eady ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o nhau?<\/em><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn 23% nam gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 19% ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef t\u1eebng l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi, t\u1eebng r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i \u201csay n\u1eafng\u201d v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u1ee9 3. Tuy nhi\u00ean, 70% c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd quay l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nhau n\u1ebfu \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng che gi\u1ea5u hay l\u1ea5p li\u1ebfm<\/strong><\/p>\n

Khi mu\u1ed1n gi\u1ea3m thi\u1ec3u m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 h\u1ecd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ee9a ra c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi chung chung nh\u1ea5t th\u00ec v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt trong \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

N\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn n\u1ed7i \u0111au c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y. Nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc Robert Weiss t\u1eebng n\u00f3i, mu\u1ed1n kh\u00f4i ph\u1ee5c ni\u1ec1m tin, c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng s\u1ef1 minh b\u1ea1ch.<\/p>\n

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\u0110\u1eebng t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1eebng b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa cho sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u201cAnh\/c\u00f4 c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u\u201d. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng r\u1ea5t hay b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p trong nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c c\u00e3i v\u00e3. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00e2u n\u00f3i t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng nh\u01b0 v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i g\u00e2y ra h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4n l\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xem nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u1ee7y ho\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

T\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t, \u0111\u1eebng l\u00f4i nhau ra ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t hay c\u00f4ng k\u00edch nhau. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m tin m\u00e0 c\u00f2n g\u00e2y m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn ch\u1ed3ng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. M\u1ed9t b\u00ean lu\u00f4n b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, b\u00ean c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u1ee9 t\u00ecm l\u00fd l\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ec7n minh, c\u1ea7u xin s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9. h\u00e3y ng\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n khi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee7 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng l\u00f4i b\u00ean th\u1ee9 3 v\u00e0o m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m sau khi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nhau. V\u00ec v\u1eady, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, con c\u00e1i hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n v\u00e0o quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 2 b\u00ean m\u1edbi hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u00ean th\u1ee9 3 duy nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n, theo nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u t\u00e2m l\u00fd Joe Kort, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 chuy\u00ean gia t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n v\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n – gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Cho b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi quy\u1ec1n truy c\u1eadp th\u00f4ng tin c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh trung th\u1ef1c, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 che gi\u1ea5u, sao kh\u00f4ng th\u1eed \u0111\u1ec3 cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn v\u1edbi tin nh\u1eafn, cu\u1ed9c g\u1ecdi, m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean v\u1eabn trong ph\u1ea1m vi ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c cho ph\u00e9p. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u1ea1i ni\u1ec1m tin h\u01a1n. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t r\u1eb1ng, khi \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m tin, s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

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Duy tr\u00ec h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n v\u1edbi nhau<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Jim Walkup, c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, ti\u1ec1n h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 khuy\u00ean kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng n\u00ean c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh cho nhau, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap c\u1ea3 hai c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1eb9n h\u00f2, kh\u01a1i d\u1eady nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac thu\u1edf m\u1eb7n n\u1ed3ng.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u00e1c b\u00ean ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn chia s\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u cho nhau, m\u1ecdi nghi ng\u1edd s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00f3a b\u1ecf, c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ea3 hai v\u00e0o m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

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